When people say being single actually feels good, many eyebrows are raised at that but it really is. Being single is so cool and there are so many intriguing things about it. There’s this general mindset that when you’re single it means you’re lonely but on the contrary that’s very untrue!!.
The mentality about being single is something that should be corrected, many single people are seen as sadists,loners and people unable to love and get loved too and that’s very unfair💔.
There’s a difference between being single and staying single, we all need to enjoy our singleness cause there are a lot of things associated with it.
See some intriguing facts about singleness you’ve not considered
Gives you enough room to love yourself
How on earth do you plan to give what you don’t have?, you wanna rush into a romantic relationship but you don’t even know how to love.
If you don’t know how to love yourself enough so how then would you to someone else adequately?, you’re unsatisfied with everything you do, you don’t like/admire your physique, don’t believe in yourself, can’t trust yourself & you’re totally dependent too.
So with all these, where’s the room to really love someone else?, but being single actually gives you enough room to get to love yourself enough to know what’s good for you & be emotionally independent.
Allows you understand yourself better
Singleness is all about you, you’re not being selfish or something, it’s just a necessary stage. 85% of people who go into relationships without fully understanding themselves end up in breakups. Being single, helps you understand your personality better, your likes, dislikes, down moments, needs and other vital things.
You don’t necessarily need to have a bf/gf to be happy and that’s why many relationships end badly. Both parties are both emotionally dependent, relying on the other to ensure their happiness. Going into a relationship with the aim of being happy really isn’t it, cause when you don’t get enough of it, you opt out and end up being sad.
In essence, what I’m driving at is, find your happiness without relying on anyone to do that for you. So that singleness stage is the time when you get to know how to be happy without relying on anyone for that.
Privacy!., privacy!!, so paramount. Every adult enjoys his privacy uninterrupted, imagine you having your own free space, time and all without having to owe it to anyone. That privacy that can allow you to plan adequately cause there’s no distraction of any sort, isn’t it so cool?
Maximizes your focus
The kind of distractions relationships bring is unavoidable, it’s not something you can always control. It shifts your focus, especially when you didn’t use your singleness days to set them right. I don’t see why relationships are seen as the Alpha and Omega, there are so many more important things to focus on.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying those in relationships don’t have guaranteed happiness, uninterrupted privacy, good focus and all. I’m saying they can only have this if their single days were properly used in self-development before they entered into a relationship.
Enjoy your singleness, it’s fun, it’s a learning ground, it’s your space, it’s like your personal world so flex with it.
Would love to hear your thought on this topic, what do you think about being single?, let’s see it in the comment section 💛💛.